How are you going to be a straight ally?

So I haven't updated for a while. Sorry about that folks...

Anyway, my goal here is to help share resources for those interested in being allies of the LGBT community. It is also for members of the LGBT community to find allies. I thought I would help by sharing some tips about being an ally.

1. Don't assume anything
1. Many people assume that all LGBT people have exactly the same feelings (relationship-wise). This understandable because we grow up learning about definite sexes and definite sexual orientations. It is important to know that both are fluid. Never assume that because someone currently identifies as gay, they love the same sex all the time and that's all they think about.
2. Feel free to ask
1. Most members of the LGBT community don't mind be asked about their sexuality. If they do, they'll let you know. If you feel uncomfortable with what pronouns to use or how to address them properly, just ask. Most are going to give an honest answer. It's better than going out on a limb and accidentally offending someone.
3. Do some research
1. If being an ally is new to you, do some research. Check out what terms mean and what terms you shouldn't use. There are definitely some "no-no" terms that many people think are okay but the LGBT community finds offensive. This is another situation where it's good to ask someone who knows some stuff already (which hopefully is why you're reading this!)
4. Don't always assume you are offending someone
1. I can even be accused of this. Definitely be careful of what you say, but don't always be afraid to speak up because you think you are offending someone. If you never ask any questions or let people know when you're uncomfortable, you'll never learn from each other.
5. Be an ally all the time.
1. Unfortunately, we are surrounded by people who are unaware that they are offending the LGBT community with some of the words they say. It's usually not a good idea to yell at anyone, but if you hear something offensive, speak up! Say, "Hey! That could be offensive to someone." or something similar. People tend to be on guard when they are with someone who they know is a member of the LGBT community, but they let things slide when they're not around. Be an ally all the time!

So there are 5 tips for now. More are coming! If you have questions, comment on here on send me a message. I'm hoping this can be a forum where I answer questions on a regular basis :)

As always, thanks for reading!